Concerns have been variously expressed about the “Internet Age” negatively impacting communication between people. People will (do) spend too much time hooked to their computers instead of interacting in-person (thereby causing breakdowns in communication, increased depression), etc.
The negative impacts of technology on communication and human interactions (both real and potential) are important topics that should be addressed.
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On the flip side, I also find I’ve had positive communication skills reinforced by participation on Facebook and Twitter. These principles apply both online and in-person.
In order for one’s communications to be noticed and valued (career advancement, etc.), social media interactions demonstrate that one must:
- Have something useful to say
- Have a creative way to frame your message (i.e., be articulate)
- Offer an interesting perspective
- Get to the point (be succinct)
- Provide visual appeal (photos online, professionally drafted memos and personal appearance offline)
- Audiences only wants to hear your personal asides if you are a high-profile figure
- Humor helps to hold an audience’s attention
- Giving witty, easily-repeated sound-bites makes you memorable
- Don’t wait to be heard. Stick your neck out there and contribute to the conversation.
- The people who are taken seriously are ones who make declarative action statements.
- Make time to listen to others. The more you give attention to others, the more they will engage with you.
- Communications that take a long time to craft and ones that are spontaneously revealing are both often well-received.
- Timing matters. Posts on social media get the most attention at times of day when the largest numbers of people are online. Likewise, in-person communication is most effective when delivered at a time when recipients will be receptive.
Individuals who apply these principles stand out and are noticed.